Taking Care of Your Elderly Relatives: What Are Your Options?

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Taking Care of Your Elderly Relatives: What Are Your Options?

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As we get a little older, we begin to look a little less towards our elders for advice. Mothers and Fathers become Grandfather and Grandmother, and although they remain the center point of our family lives, in time they need a little more looking after than usual. Whether it is popping over a couple of times during the week, for a cup of tea or to help out around the house, our older generation begins to depend on us more and more. This can put a massive strain on a family unit.

If your parents are healthy and avoid any major illnesses then you may not need to take any drastic measures to look after them. Unfortunately though, this is not always the case. Many families suffer at the hands of mental illnesses such as Alzheimer’s or dementia, or physical illnesses such as cancer or loss of vision. This is a tragic situation for any family to have to deal with, but if you stick together and spread the load of looking after your elderly relatives you can make sure that their twilight years are as comfortable as they can be.

Mental and Physical Illness - Catch It Early

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It’s important to try and catch and mental or physical illnesses your elderly relatives might suffer from as early as possible. Be sure to take your elderly relatives to regular medical checkups to ensure they are fit and healthy and if you do suspect any sort of illness be sure to get it checked out as early as possible.

Catching a disease early can often mean treatment can begin straight away to ease the problems that the illness may cause. It may even mean that treatment can resolve the problem before it has even started.

However, it isn’t always that easy and even if you catch a disease early it can often lead to complications. It is when this happens that you and your family need to be strong. There are a lot of decisions to be made along the road ahead, you must make them together as a family as your elderly relative may not be well enough to make them for themselves.

Care in the Home

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When your elderly relative begins to have problems with everyday tasks at home such as cooking for themselves or cleaning then it might be time to call in professional help for them. There is only so much you can do yourself, and although you want to do everything you possibly can for your elderly relative it is more than likely you are not mentally prepared or physically able to take care of them twenty four hours a day. Calling in a expert or a professional care worker to come and look after your relative for a couple of hours a week can give you a lot more peace of mind and take some of the stress off you. These care workers are specially trained to deal with mental illnesses such as Alzheimer’s and dementia and physical illnesses such as arthritis and osteoporosis. These care workers can help your elderly relative with the shopping, getting in and out of the bath and in general make their lives easier, as well as making your own life a little more stress free.

Care Homes

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If your relatives’ situation continues to worsen, then it could come to a point where they need round the clock care. Putting your elderly relative in a home is never an easy decision and should never be taken lightly. There are thousands of well-equipped homes around the country specifically designed to cater for those elderly people who can no longer take care of themselves. These are extremely comfortable locations with specifically designed layouts and flooring plans to cater for those with disabilities. They also provide round the clock care with highly trained staff which are available at the click of a button. The staff are friendly and highly trained and genuinely care about the people they are looking after, they are as concerned for the wellbeing of your elderly relative as you are, they’re there to make both your lives easier. These homes are fully catered and have all the entertainment facilities and activities to keep your elderly relative motivated and healthy.

The staff at these homes will walk you through all you need to know about putting your relative into a home and how they will take care of them around the clock. Across the country there are professionals devoted to making elderly people’s lives more comfortable for them and their families.  A number nursing homes in West Sussex, recently received a national award, the Gold Standard for life care for the second time proving that the standard of care in care homes across the region is consistently assessed, competitive and is kept at a high standard.

Getting help at home for your elderly relative or putting them in a home is never an easy decision. No one wants to put their parents in a home or have to have someone else other than them looking after them. The important thing to remember is that you cannot let your life be taken over. You may have a family of your own who needs you and you may not be the best person to take care of your elderly relative. You can only do so much compared to a trained expert who has devoted their lives to taking care of elderly people.
The important thing to remember here is to take the doctor’s advice, ask your GP what the best course of action is and then explain the circumstances to your relative. If they agree to going in a home then you should begin to put the wheels in motion.