Self Confidence

In Depth Discuss :

- Definition Self-Confidence

- Character of a Confident Person

- Overcoming Not Taste Self-Confidence

- Builds Self-Confidence

- The Conclusion

Self-confidence is a positive attitude for an individual to feel competent, capable, confident, and confident that he can develop a positive assessment of himself or the environment or situation he is facing.

This does not mean that the individual is capable and competent to do everything by himself. High self-confidence actually only refers to a few aspects of the individual's life. He will feel competence, confidence, ability, and believe that he can. This is supported by experiences, actual potential, achievements, and realistic expectations of oneself.

There are 3 types of people, namely people who have confidence in themselves, people who are too confident, and people who are less confident.
1). Confident person

a. Be able to control yourself. Confident people have relatively stable emotions and are not moody. He felt able to do something. Therefore, he did not give up easily because of a slight obstacle.

b. Respect for others. People who are confident are able to be themselves and dare to be different from others. Therefore, he is able to appreciate differences with other people.

c. Self-introspection. Confident people see success or failure depending on their own efforts. He does not blame others, does not easily give up on fate or circumstances, and does not depend or expect other people's help.

d. Express yourself. People who have confidence are able to express their own thoughts. He is also able to be his own person and not change opinions or choices just because he follows the opinion of the crowd.

e. Exploring your potential. Confident people feel they have the ability to do or face something based on their previous experiences. Therefore, he will not hesitate to do something that can develop his potential.

f. Having a positive perspective on himself, others, and situations outside himself.

g. Have realistic expectations of yourself.

2). Overconfident people
a. Arrogant. People who are overly confident never want to give in to others and want to win themselves.

b. Ignorant and shameless. For example, dressing at will without paying attention to applicable norms and rules, kissing in public, even having premarital sex. This kind of person would be proud to break in line and destroy other people's belongings without guilt.

c. Disrespect and abuse others.

d. Too brave. For example, challenging your parents, or speeding on the highway without fear of having an accident.

3). People who lack self-confidence

a. Minder. People who lack self-confidence always feel less than others. For example, they don't want to eat together because they feel inappropriate, or they don't want to study together because they are worried about looking stupid.

b. Lonely. People who lack self-confidence often refuse to do activities with other people.

c. Isolated. Various attitudes and perceptions that they are different, inferior to others, or difficult to do like what other people do make people who lack self-confidence feel isolated from those around them.

d. Stress. People who lack self-confidence feel that they always have shortcomings and see other people as full of strengths. These assessments made him often feel depressed.

e. Nervous and often make wrong decisions Various wrong personal assumptions and judgments often make people who lack confidence become wrong in acting or making decisions.

1). We can talk from heart to heart. We advise him to dare to show himself to others and not just join in.

2). We can also motivate him by saying, he will be cooler or more attractive if he appears as is.

3). We can also teach him to be assertive and have personality.

4). We can also challenge him by making him a leader among us, because the leader is the final decision maker if something happens. In this way, he will learn to determine his attitude and personality.

At the beginning, it has been stated that self-confidence is needed to build enthusiasm for life success. How can we build self-confidence?

1. Learn to deal with feelings! Like most people, there are times when we feel angry, sad, hurt, afraid, frustrated, or stressed out. Don't let these feelings dominate us.

2. Realize that we ourselves are responsible for our attitudes and actions! Other people may try to influence us with their words. He may pressure us into doing things we don't want to do. Maybe he looks down on us in order to make himself feel better than us. Don't take our anger out on that person! Moreover, obey everything they ask. Instead, pause for a moment, take a deep breath, realize that we always have a choice and that choice is to do what is right for us. Although it is quite difficult to rise up against pressure or resist harsh words, rest assured we can.

3. Be a decision maker! Making decisions can also build self-confidence. Give ourselves the opportunity to make more decisions in our lives! We can seek advice from friends or trusted adults to help us make decisions.

4. Focus on our own lives, not the lives of others! Don't let ourselves fall into the trap of comparing ourselves with others! Instead, focus on life and the goals we want to achieve.

5. Give ourselves a cheering cheer! Remember that the way we talk to ourselves plays an important role in the way we see ourselves. Don't focus on the wrong things in life! Tell yourself, what have we done right! Don't think, "I'm really screwing up." Instead, say, "That's not what I want. Next time I know what to do."

1. Be Yourself.

2. Truly Confident People Don't Have To Show Off All Their Strengths.

3. Live Our Lives Normally and Remember, Always Listen to Advice, Both From Other People and From Parents.